I have observed that often the hardest relationship to negotiate is not with people of other world religions (“neighbors”), but with people of our own religion (“brothers and sisters”) who have a different belief system or tradition.
Why do we do this?
Have you found it productive to cut more slack to a “neighbor” than to a “brother or sister?” Why?
Have you found it helpful to expect more from a “brother or sister” than from a “neighbor?” Why?
Have you found it useful to argue with a “brother or sister” and hold a more respectful conversation with a “neighbor?” Why?
Have you won anything by arguing with a “brother or sister” and avoiding argument with a “neighbor?” Why?
We live and work with religious siblings and with neighbors. Every relationship goes better when there is genuine respect in our conversation and collaboration.
Copyright 2009 by Kenneth L. Morrison All Rights Reserved
Dr. Ken Morrison
Pastor
Via de Cristo United Methodist Fellowship
7430 E Pinnacle Peak Road, Ste 134
Scottsdale, AZ 85255
480-515-4490
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